Is it awkward to have someone you like and you can't find a topic to talk about? Have a better topic, can be more friendly communication, and his more show good side to the other party.
Identify topics based on gender
If you want to have a conversation with someone you like, the most important thing to notice is the gender of the person. Why do you say that? Boys and girls, topics boys like, girls don't necessarily like, the same, girls are passionate about the topics, maybe boys may sound dull. Metaphorically speaking, your face is a girl you like, then you begin to have no words to find words, and the girl are you and the girls talking about about the financial industry, steel industry and the like the girls generally don't like the topic, what do you think, girls will get tired of hearing vexed? If you're faced with a big old man, you start talking to him about makeup, manicure, costume, etc., and you wonder if he can fall asleep? So, make sure your topic is based on the gender of the person.
Understand the person's general character
A person you like, you must know some personality of the other, or you won't like it, will you? There is not much to say about things you love when you look at them. Whether you like the opposite sex or the same sex you admire, you should have an approximate understanding of her character. I remember there was a saying that you know you know how to fight, you don't know each other, how do you know what the other person likes? You can't find the person you're interested in. How do you make each other look good or look at you differently? No matter who you are, you don't want to impose your "you think" on the other person, so you can talk about something that the other person doesn't like at all. If you want someone you like to be interested in your topic, get to know each other's personality first, and at least you should have a general idea.
According to each other's professional chats
I remember one of my colleagues, she and her husband were blind dates, they had eye catching, so we agreed to go for a trip the next day. When we are in a clothing company, the boy did not know from where learn some clothes, my female colleagues and we say, if people want to hear, thought that guy was a fashion designer. I spent the whole day talking to my female colleague about clothing, and as long as my female colleagues spoke, he could give me a rough idea. That two people together for the first time, though it is embarrassed but no imagination, sometimes slightly "debate", so the relationship between the two individuals rapid heating up, two people hand in hand a few days became a loving couple. So you have to remember to find the topic? Well, know the other person's job first, and know something about it.
Depending on the relationship you want to build with each other
You have to be sure, and you're going to decide what kind of relationship you're going to have, and then you're going to be able to determine the topic of the conversation. Is your face if you like of the opposite sex, such as you pursue a girl, then you have to find ways to love that respect the subject go, although can not be in the first time to chat or not to the point when I was very familiar with, but you also need to have a general psychological preparation. Like to chat some beautiful love story, then probably something about your understanding of love, so you like girls will be attracted by your topic, so, want to seek a topic to chat with the person you like, also hard?
Talk about some of your experiences
Especially in the face of the opposite sex, a lot of men and women can't find the topic of the feeling, the big eyes stare at the small eyes really has a kind of embarrassment. If encounter this kind of situation, you can according to the other party to the degree of patience, something about yourself, such as some of the fun of yourself as a child, for example, if you grow some of the difficulties encountered in the ah, or your perception of love like! Marriage family! And so on. And then, based on this, go on and talk about the people and things that you've met, so that you can have an infinite number of topics to talk about. But you must remember, cannot too drunk in your topic, you should always observe the expression, if you show impatience, so please give your topic to a perfect end.
Ask about the situation appropriately
You can't always talk about yourself all day long or in the face of someone you like. Through your chat, let the other person know you, you have to speak to you through the other person, then you get to know each other. Be tempted to ask for information about the person you are with, such as personal experience, work experience, or other experiences and exclamations. If you're too embarrassed to ask, ask your partner's birthday and then talk about it for a while. In this way, you will not only have a new topic to talk about, but also get to know each other more deeply through each other's narration.